Best friend or boyfriend (girlfriend)???

[ksenia007]

I want to know your opinion about such thing. Girl  has a boyfriend (they love each other) and she has a best friend ( they are friends from the childhood). also she has a problem.  boyfriend and her friend can not communicate with each other without scandals. And she doesn't know what she have to do.....Your advices.

[KishMishsh]

boyfriend and her friend can not communicate with each other without scandals

What is the reason?

[ksenia007]

she doesn't know...she tried to speak about this situation with both.Her boyfriend doesn't want to hear about her communication with her friend and the same thing with her friend. Her boyfriend believes that her friend has a bad influence on his girlfriend. Her friend doesn't want to share her with boyfrind.

And now the situation is so critical, cause all the time this Girl quarrels with her friend and her boyfriend. She is in despair.

[KishMishsh]

So do they want her to make a choice?

[Grek23]

Looks like the boyfriend doesn't think that he's just a boyfriend. What do you think?

[KishMishsh]

What does "to be just a boyfriend" mean?

[ksenia007]

Yes. They want her to make a choice. I think it's so egoistic

[kanarejka]

In my opinion It's almost imposible to have a friend of the other sex, because of sex...

[Mousee]

I think she should listen to the person who she knows longer as this person knows about her more and can really advise her

[Gregory]

If there are all information about this conflict, I think it is stupid "детский максимализм"!!! Because adult people doesn't have an argue because of this thing!
Boyfriend can jealous his girl to another men, but jealousy is madness if this boy is the best friend from her childhood!
Girl should be more seriously and to decide about necessity to have this boyfriend!